Life is Precious, Learn to Love Yourself

Year after year, time flies by so quickly. In a blink of an eye, you grow up, in a blink of an eye, you reach middle age, and in another blink, you grow old.

Suddenly looking back, there are so many feelings, so much pain, so much joy, and it’s really nice to have someone to share it with, but you don’t know where to start. Often, you have words in your heart, but you think about them for a long time, and you always fail to speak them out. As you grow older, you suddenly don’t want to speak anymore.

On the road of life, you will meet many people, and you will encounter many things. Most people pass by, and there are very few people you can count as ‘a fleeting encounter’. It’s even rarer to have someone who will never leave you and remain by your side for a lifetime. Many people have reached their twilight years and are still alone, not because they don’t want someone to accompany them, but because they can’t find the right person. When two people get along, it’s tiring, and it’s better to live alone and enjoy a peaceful life, although it’s hard, your heart won’t be so tired, and you don’t have to look at anyone’s face.

Someone said:‘The people who shiver in the cold can best appreciate the warmth of the sun. People who have experienced life’s troubles most understand the preciousness of life.’

A person’s life will never feel very easy. When you were a student, you longed to learn and achieve something, but many people actually didn’t learn anything, their grades were mediocre, and they felt headache just looking at books. When you enter the society, you realize that ideals are often castles in the air, and they are completely different from reality. When you reach middle age, you often lose your ideals and become accustomed to turning over for a living, striving for a livelihood and earning money is the first priority. When you grow old, you just hope to be healthy and live well, which has become a wish.

One day, you suddenly realize that life is just a ‘dream of the marshland’. The things you can truly possess are very few and very few. The people who always say they will accompany you for life may leave you halfway through. You have a lot of money, but it’s only temporary, and after a few years, the money belongs to others; your career is always in development, but you can’t achieve your goals, and people are constantly surpassing you.

Suddenly, you feel very tired, and the most tired is mental exhaustion. The pain that no one understands is a hundred times worse than physical pain. When the heart has no support, the soul wanders and cannot find its true home.

Life is bitter and hard, why do you still look at others’ faces? Why don’t you learn to love yourself?

The desires in your heart are like ‘chains’, blinding your minds and only letting you see money. You think money can buy everything, including love. If you really have money, you might find it crowded with people, even at the age of fifty or sixty, someone will introduce you a girlfriend, and women will be willing to accompany you for life. But take a serious look, those women who like money will never stay with you for a lifetime, they want you to grow old and let them enjoy the money freely.

Having too high expectations for love will only lead to disappointment. The more you hope that others understand you, the less people understand you. When you go home, you don’t want to blame anyone or be blamed, you just feel that every day is spent enduring grievances, and you can’t even laugh at home. You often see other people doing things based on other people’s faces, your mood fluctuates with other people’s faces. When you encounter difficult problems, you want to escape, thinking that it’s because others are making you difficult; when you encounter overtime, you are indignant, why you have to do overtime, others can finish on time. Others can step up in their careers, why is it still a small clerk for you? You feel that when you reach a certain age, you should start ‘reducing’, you should reduce the burden on your heart. In the future, you’ll live a more natural life, and you’ll get what you deserve. In the bitter days of life, you’ll live alone, believing that heaven will open its grace and give you a way to live.

In the future, you will learn to love yourself. You won’t speak cautiously, you won’t act hesitantly, you won’t look at people’s faces, you’ll think about problems and consider them yourself.

It’s late, if you don’t learn to love yourself, no one will love you; if you don’t know how to comfort yourself, no one will give you the best comfort; if you don’t want to let go of past things, no one will take it over for you. If you don’t want to live happily, then you are destined to live a miserable life. Life is ultimately what you make it, and it all depends on the angle you choose to look at it. If you change your perspective, the world will become beautiful; if you change your way of living, you can live freely and at ease.

Take some time, be alone, let the fatigue dissipate with the wind. Don’t think about anything, turn off your phone, don’t listen to anything, don’t look at anything. Let yourself and the world ‘separate’ temporarily, and you’ll find that being alone is so precious, and your heart finds relief. Life returns to that innocent childhood.

You’ll also need to ‘refuse’. Refuse to associate with shameless people, refuse to get involved in shady things, and give up on impossible dreams. Refuse to look at others’ faces, and treat them as if they don’t exist; refuse to listen to others’ nonsense, and treat it as if it didn’t happen. Refuse to associate with people you don’t want to know, as if you’ve never met them before.

Whitman said:

‘The people who shiver in the cold can best appreciate the warmth of the sun. People who have experienced life’s troubles most understand the preciousness of life.’

Cold and warm, only you know, don’t rely on others; when people fall and disgrace, only rely on yourself, who you will rely on will make you feel cold. Having experienced so many things, having seen so many people, you should understand how to choose the future road, don’t be lost in confusion.A lifetime is only a few decades, happiness is one day, pain is also one day; freedom is one day, annoyance is also one day. How you spend a day is your choice. If you don’t know how to choose how to spend a day, then you’ve been living in a confused state, without knowing when you’ll have a breakthrough.In the future, remember, don’t be too kind, you’ll always be low-key and miserable; don’t always flatter others, you’ll be humble and miserable; don’t always think you’re inferior, you should treat yourself well every day, follow your heart, and live a good life; let people like you, that’s fate, cherish it; if they slander you, that’s because they’re jealous of you, ignore them; if they plot against you, it’s because they don’t have good intentions, respect them.

When you reach a certain age, you should start ‘reducing’, reduce the burden on your heart. In the future, you’ll live naturally, and you’ll get what you deserve.

Author: Rough Eater.

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