The Most Ruthless Rules! (Heart-pounding)

Be sure to first ask if it is, then ask why.

Often, the information you have is only a part of the entire event.

It is very difficult for anyone to truly ‘understand’ another person.

Don’t expect too much.

3. No one has an obligation to always accommodate you, tolerate your shortcomings and bad moods.Don’t overconsume others’ kindness, cherish every kind person.

4. Regarding things you don’t understand, admitting inadequacy or remaining silent can be okay, but don’t pretend to be an expert.

5. Take others’ shortcomings as jokes, which is not humorous. Maturity is to think about problems from the perspective of others, not to embarrass others publicly, not to ridicule others’ weaknesses, to be more gentle with the world, and the world will be gentle with you. Office harmony: maintain cleanliness in public areas, return things to their original place, remember to clean up dirty places, ask for permission before borrowing, knock on the door before entering others’ rooms.

7. Don’t gossip about others behind their backs. At least don’t do it in front of people you’re not sure of.8. When receiving gifts, no matter whether you like it or not, first say thank you. The meaning of the gift is not the gift itself, but the thought of someone constantly thinking of you when you’re away. Also, don’t arbitrarily belittle things others like, you can say it’s okay, you can say it’s not good, but don’t directly deny it or say with a sarcastic tone, ‘How could you like this?’ You never know what harm a casual word can cause to others.

9. ‘If I hadn’t done this’ is the worst evaluation of an event.

10. Listen carefully to the other person’s words during the conversation, it’s more likely to gain the goodwill of others than interrupting the dialogue and expressing your own opinions.11. Seriously, don’t send more than two 60-second voice messages, even mothers won’t listen.

12. Don’t abuse your compassion. Give it to people.

13. Saying ‘it doesn’t matter’ means I don’t particularly like it, but I’m willing to do anything with you if you like it. Saying ‘it’s okay’ is ‘I don’t think it’s good,’ but I don’t want to say it in front of you. Saying ‘I like it’ is really liking it. Really liking it is hidden.

14. Don’t ask others to meet your standards. Sometimes, what seems easy to you, is difficult for others.

15. If you’re in an unequal relationship with someone for a long time, you should consider ending the relationship, the way to make up is time or money, and both parties should feel acceptable.

16. Phone photos, don’t swipe left and right to look at the entire photo album.

17. You may be good enough, but not everyone can see your goodness.

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18. The essence of social interaction is mutual benefit, knowing this will make things easier. Some people gradually move away from you, not because you did something wrong, but because they no longer need you.

1. Error Law: What others don’t do is your mistake, 2. Effect Law: Crying on a wound and sprinkling salt on a wound have the same effect. 3. Jealousy Law: People are jealous of others’ successes, not of strangers’ achievements, but of people around them achieving success. 4. Circle Law: People shouldn’t be too square or too round, one will hurt people, and one will keep you away from you, therefore people should be oval. 5. Mouthwater Law: When you make people drool, there will be more drool about you. 6. Utilization Law: Don’t be afraid of being used, be afraid that you are useless. 7. Achievement Law: If you don’t have achievements, you won’t have friends because of mediocrity; if you have achievements, you will lose friends because of excellence. 8. Pie Law: When a pie falls from the sky, be careful of a trap waiting underneath. 9. Error Law: The biggest mistake people make is being too polite to strangers and too harsh to loved ones. 10. Evaluation Law: Don’t be curious about how others evaluate you, think about how you evaluate them.

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