Don't Overestimate Your Relationships with Anyone!

North Island poet said: 'You didn't return as expected, and this is the meaning of farewell.'

Perhaps even you yourself may not have realized it, most of your encounters in life ultimately point to separation.

This ending is already written at the time of your first meeting.

Life is a continuous process of meeting and saying goodbye; reunions and separations are just experiences that must be experienced in life. Don't care too much, get used to it.

Few people can truly accompany you to the end; don't overestimate the relationship between you and anyone.

Perhaps, you always thought that feelings between people were always genuine exchanges,

As long as you sincerely give to someone, even if you don't get an equal return, at least it won't bring about a malicious deception,

But your kindness, how could you know that the most treacherous thing in the world is actually people's hearts,

Some people, you pour your heart out to them, without any defenses, they can sell you out for their own interests,

Some people, today you're intimate with them, you cherish each other, tomorrow they can turn their backs on you. People come and go,

In this lifetime, few people will willingly accompany you from the dawn of the morning to the twilight of the evening rain,

Many feelings fade as they are; many people break up as they go,

You always need to prepare yourself psychologically for all this,

The coldest thing is people's hearts; the most painful thing is ruthlessness,

The world is full of all kinds of things, complicated and diverse; after experiencing them, whether good or bad, you should just treat them as growth,

Those people's cold and warm relationships and reunions and separations are all just giving you a warning: don't overestimate your relationship with anyone,

The world is so big, no one can live without anyone, and no one will leave anyone,

Life comes and goes; the people who appear in your years will always be free to come and go,

Don't take others too seriously, and don't take yourself too lightly,

You always need to learn to say goodbye and accept those people who can't be retained with dignity, instead of being panicked and crying every time,

Everyone is an independent individual, no one was born for anyone,

The one who truly belongs to you for a lifetime is only yourself,

Therefore, don't rely on anyone,

Your loneliness needs to be dispelled by yourself; your happiness needs to be pursued by yourself.