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Have you ever heard this sentence: Sometimes..., love is fragile, a word, an action, can make it disappear. Sometimes, love is strong enough to withstand all the cold eyes and gossip.

Yeah, 'love' is sometimes ridiculous!

Many couples break up because of things, leaving because of things, but after breaking up, they regret it and come back, some things can't return to their original place after being moved, broken mirrors can't be pieced back together.

In love, we really need to make some compromises, cherish it, don't easily break up.

When women fall in love with men, they are cautious, afraid of losing, when men fall in love with women, they are equally so. He will flatter women, let women be, afraid of losing women. Women shouldn't misunderstand.

Although now we are looking for love based on the fundamental reasons are no longer seeking lifelong support, and are no longer looking for a long-term food ticket, as a girl, we still instinctively crave a true love.

May we be treated with tenderness by the person we love in this life, which is our lifelong pursuit.

A man's true love for you cannot be just in words, but rather seen in his actions, seen in the details of your interactions. Those who say a lot but do little, and those who are exposed by details, are not trustworthy.

For example, in communication, in words, the men who truly love you and don't want to lose you, often say these 5 sentences to you.

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1. 'I have no faults, I can change!'

'Admit mistakes and change' and 'men who make changes for you' show that they really care about you and love you.

It's not easy for an adult, especially a man, to admit his shortcomings.

Love is not about logic. If someone loves you enough, they will understand that it's not about logic, and they will step back if necessary, and if not, they will step back twice.

2. 'I'm listening…'

People all want to express themselves, especially in the current era, they want to express the difficult-to-say emotions, the inability to express their anger. Listening is more precious than expressing.

Your happiness can be shared with many people, but many emotions can only be spoken to people who understand you. In this way, you can understand the hidden feelings you can't express, and appreciate the sensitivity beneath your seemingly indifferent.

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3. 'We will be together in the future…'

A man who has placed you in his heart will firmly believe in your existence in his future, without thinking about you not being around.

From you and me to our future, there is a strange sense of touch. You give him infinite hope, he promises you an endless future.

4. 'I will always be by your side'

Like Huang Xiaohe, 'I don't want to leave you'

He wants to accompany you to meet all the surprises and beauties, and he wants you to have him by your side when you meet difficulties and setbacks.

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5. 'I love you'

People in Western countries like to hang 'I love you' even if they are white-haired and have gray hair, you can still see the love between them. In our country, it's probably because of the national conditions and the innate habit of being reserved and restrained, so the seemingly outdated words are often difficult for people to say.

'Love' is still encouraged to express, only when you express it, he knows, and it can ferment and spread love. The more you express your love, the deeper the love will be.

The man who often says 'I love you' to you must be because he cares about your feelings, knows you are insecure, and understands that expressing it is to make you feel safe.

Finally, let me share a story that deeply impressed me.

A couple who had been married for two years was tired of their wife's boring life and marriage, so they divorced. The wife set a condition: as long as the husband fulfilled her any requirements in the next 30 days, she would agree to divorce.

The husband who was prepared to 'sacrifice', waited for the wife's requirements, only a few small things, 'kiss me', 'hug me', 'hold my hand', 'say I love you'. At first, the husband did what the wife asked, but after finishing it, he would retreat behind and sleep, often hesitating for a long time before reluctantly holding the wife's hand.

But over time, he began to like the warm embrace, and the wife's daily small requests became his 'privileges'. He would give an embrace before the wife said anything, and when everyone thought the story was going to return to the theme of warmth, he would pause for a long time before reluctantly holding the wife's hand.

On the last day of the divorce agreement, when the husband's colleague was on a business trip and thought about the scene, he asked earnestly, 'Darling, I promise you that in the future, I will always kiss you, hug you, hold your hand, and say I love you, will you marry me?'

At that time, he promised her wedding vows were now the requirements she asked for divorce. What destroyed their love was not any grand and romantic event, but a detail that he ignored – a love that was overlooked.

Why do they say that love needs to be 'detailed'? Because in details, you can see a person's heart. A man who loves you deeply will understand that it's not about logic, and he will step back if necessary, and if not, he will step back twice.

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Therefore, men who often say these five sentences to you must love you more than themselves, love to the point of overflow, and then overflow. Love is not just in words, it's more in action, and the love you say is what you do.

Taking what to love is not when you are sick, to send warmth, but to take your hand and walk the world, when you meet difficulties and setbacks, to have him by your side. If you ask me what kind of love I yearn for, I yearn for the love described by famous female poet Shu Ting in 'To the Willow Tree': 'You don't want to separate, you can leave me alone.' We don't suspect each other, we don't praise each other, it's like being with ourselves, when we speak, it's as if we're talking to ourselves, and when you speak to me, it's as if we're talking to ourselves. We move at the same frequency, grow together, and love naturally.

That's the most comfortable and natural way to love. Let us all meet the love we yearn for in this life, and get the love we deserve.-end-

Author introduction: Qi Qi, a freelance writer/columnist/micro-blogging signed author; a warm and witty, rational and emotional Libra girl, who loves to eat, drink, and play; welcome to follow me, let's share interesting and meaningful lives together, and grow together independently and change.

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Have you said any of these five sentences to your boyfriend (husband)?

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