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Often, those with good character come into contact with, which is a great wisdom.

Close to Zhu, close to Black,Interacting with friends influences each other, and mutual influence leads to different life experiences,Confucius said: 'Loss of virtue leads to ruin, and the loss of friends is a serious matter; one should be cautious.'

Not everyone needs to be a friend, choosing friends must be cautious, some friends should not be approached,1A heart that is not kind, should not be kept,Old Master said: Heaven has no preference, but favors those who are kind,Heaven itself has no favoritism, but it particularly favors those who are benevolent,Benevolence is nature, it is also conduct, benevolence is cultivation, it is also,Kind people are sincere in their dealings, so it's reassuring to be around them,Kind people are good at seeing things from others' perspectives, making them comfortable to be with,Kind people are happy to help others, it's always a pleasant experience to be with them,All virtues are rooted in a small space,A person's fortune depends on their inner self, constantly cultivating goodness and eradicating evil, and heaven will protect it,The Analects of Confuciussaid: 'If you associate with those who are not kind, it is like staying in a fish market, even if you don't smell it, you will be influenced.'

Spending time with unkind people will corrupt your heart,Even if you yourself uphold righteousness, they may betray you,Mr. Su Dongpo once befriended, but complained about Mr. Su's poetry to the imperial court, which led to Mr. Su's imprisonment and near-death,In life, choose good friends,Friends don't need to be outstanding, don't need to be smart, but they absolutely need to be kind,2A crooked character, shouldn't be kept,When you like someone, it starts with appearance, then with talent, then with personality, and finally with kindness,Making friends is like this, turning around and around, ultimately, it's about character,Sima Guang said: 'Talents are the basis of virtue; virtue is the leader of talent.' Therefore, when talent and virtue are combined, it's called 'sages'; when talent is lost, it's called 'foolish people'; when virtue triumphs over talent, it's called 'gentlemen'; when talent triumphs over virtue, it's called 'small people.'

A person who is outstanding but has bad character is a dangerous small person,A person doesn't need to be outstanding, but has a righteous character, he's a gentleman,Connecting with people is a journey of souls,Speaking your word and keeping your word, people will trust you; being upright in character and sincere in dealing with people, you will gain genuine affection,Mr. Yu Minhong established New Oriental after attracting a large number of talented people, and Mr. Yu Minhong went to the United States to find his former classmates,He exchanged a large amount of US dollars and spent extravagantly, hoping to show his classmates that they could earn money in China,Later, his classmates returned, and gave him a surprising reason,Mr. Yu Minhong, we're back to thank you for the 4 years you've cleared and watered for us,We know you have a spirit like this, so you'll always have food to eat and won't be given just scraps,So his dormitory never had a cleaning schedule,Sometimes he forgot to fetch water, and his classmates would say, 'Where's Mr. Yu Minhong going to fetch water?'

The school showed a movie, and Mr. Yu Minhong carried all the classmates' benches,...

These classmates laid the foundation for New Oriental's development, and New Oriental became a publicly listed company in the United States,3Kind people are easy to gain support, they have good relationships, people trust and help them,No matter where they go, they are like fish in water,They are like lamps, illuminating others and illuminating themselves,The Doctrine of the Meansaid: 'Choose good friends and befriend them.'

Often, those with good character come into contact with, which is a great wisdom,Using upright characters as examples, even if you don't achieve great achievements in life, you'll always feel a sense of brilliance and warmth,The Book of Changessays: 'Similar spirits correspond and seek each other.'

Only people with the same character can be friends,Spending time with kind friends starts with being kind yourself; spending time with upright friends starts with being upright,Life is precious, let's go with honest and kind people,Please forward and share, promote traditional Chinese culture!