Don't Wait, Don't Travel Far

The world doesn't care about your ego; people only see your achievements. Don't overemphasize your ego before you have accomplishments.

If the shoes don't fit, don't force them. It's wearing down your own feet. If the person doesn't pick up the phone, don't keep repeating the call. Value those who will contact you first. If a restaurant is closed, don't travel far to eat there. It's okay to let go of things and people; they're just scenery, and those who remain are what truly matter in life.
Life will give you what it has to give; don't wait or travel far. You must love yourself, love life, and love everything. You're not a superhero; you'll get tired, hurt, sad, and helpless. But you need to understand yourself: don't be too demanding, and don't easily compromise. Work harder, let your thoughts and blood flow faster, and do things according to your own nature.

The right person doesn't need to have a high EQ, but they must understand your points. They know how to make you happy, so you won't feel too tired during a long life together. They won't use logic when you're emotional, and they won't argue with you when you're angry. It's like playing badminton; the ball is passed back and forth; you'll never be the one just picking up the ball. Love is secondary; it's most important not to feel tired when you're together.