Your dreams are your own, not others'. They may seem significant to you, but meaningless to them. The adult world is often filled with thick manuals, and eventually, you'll realize that many things have a common reason behind them.

We can't grow up like the characters in movies. You're not thirteen, and you're not seventeen. Your heartbreak is long over, and there's no Wang Xiaoqian beside you. It's us who leave, as I heard someone say to me just a few days ago – it seems that fewer and fewer people can talk to us.

You need to paint out the image of what you most desire to achieve, which will motivate your present self to double your efforts. Try to find a role model, use him as a sample for your future life, even if this person doesn't actually exist.

Try to reward yourself, and prioritize rewards connected to your goals. If you want to become a morning person, set up five consecutive successful early mornings, then you can be rewarded with a breakfast at a famous restaurant.

There's nothing to be afraid of in life. When setbacks come again and again, just hold on, who doesn't feel sad? Who doesn't feel lonely? Who hasn't been hurt in love? Who hasn't been blacklisted by someone? Those wounds will eventually heal.

Learn to cover your ears, don't listen to the noise around you. There's no one who isn't suffering. Truly, only you can make your own way. Remember, the future is still there when you've lost everything. We need to believe that everything we can do is within our reach.

Many things can only be done by yourself, and only you can speak them out. Don't be afraid to change. The people who truly love you will understand you and accept your shortcomings, wishing you a bright future, and those who say you've changed are people you don't need to pay attention to – they're just drifting away from the path they wanted you to take.