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You'll find that the older or higher-ranking people tend to speak more eloquently, often conveying a sense of gentleness, wisdom, and self-awareness – this is due to their life experience. A person's experiences shape their understanding.

Everyone learns to mask themselves during growth. Some transformations are about gaining clarity; others are to conceal one's intentions.

When dealing with people, don't be deceived by their outward appearances. Some people open their windows with a courteous demeanor but close the door with a fierce temper.

I once read a story about a child whose father was a professor, and everyone in the student and colleague circles always saw him as a modest young man. However, he often brought his bad moods home, and whenever his daughter heard his father's footsteps opening the door, she would tremble with fear, because she didn't know why he would suddenly scold or even beat her.

His malice stemmed from his dissatisfaction with society and himself, but he concealed it to maintain a façade of gentleness and preserve a refined image. All the bad emotions accumulated throughout the day would surge up when he returned home, causing him to become irritable and lash out at those around him.

This is a classic case of 'inner turmoil,' also a reflection of a personal flaw, often resulting from being overly controlled as a child and forced to be compliant.

This kind of damage can lie dormant in a person's subconscious for a long time. If the individual fails to recognize it and consciously change it, it may accompany them throughout their life, and its harm lies in using completely violent methods when faced with uncertain situations.

This explains why family violence and child abuse often occur in families. People who appear perfectly normal on the surface sometimes lack the ability to effectively communicate with their 'loved ones'.

'Loved ones' can be partners, children, or friends – in essence, there are always a certain number of people in the world who appear gentle and courteous on the surface but harbor malice beneath.

Everyone has moments of inconsistency between their public and private selves. Pay attention to details, and you may be able to avoid unnecessary 'bad relationships'.

It's important to be discerning when you have a good heart. When you focus on goodness, you must learn to identify evil.

Today's topic: How do you view people's inconsistencies between their public and private selves?

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