If someone loves you in this way, stay away – it's not genuine love.
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Love is something that cannot be forced. If you don't like someone, be honest with them, which is a truly respectable behavior. However, there are also people who have established relationships with others but don't cherish the feelings of others, nor do they take the feelings of others seriously.
For example, if you love someone and still behave this way, you should stay away, otherwise you will eventually be hurt.
01
Always picking on you
There is a kind of person who, no matter how good you are to them, is ultimately useless. Because your good for them doesn't seem to be an important factor in measuring the love between you, it's just a basic condition.
They're always picking on you, today they say you're not affectionate enough, tomorrow they say your income is too low, the next day they worry you won't be happy with them.
In short, even when you are with them, they can see that you are good to them, but they care more about your shortcomings and deficiencies, even some shortcomings are even added by them.
This kind of person, although they are in a relationship with you, it's highly likely that they will eventually not be with you, because you can never completely satisfy them.
The things they pick on you for far exceed your imagination, making you always feel insecure about the relationship in front of them. This kind of person, instead of trying to please them, it's better to leave and find someone who truly loves and appreciates you.
02
Always lying to you
There is a very disgusting person who treats lies as a daily habit in love. They always lie to you about everything, big or small.
After you discover and expose their lies, they will come up with a lot of excuses, blaming you, saying that you are too strict with them, they were afraid you would be angry, so they had to lie, even if they were having an affair with others, they would blame you.
They know they're lying and still blame you, they don't care whether you're angry or not, because they know you like them because you've caught them in that small detail, so they can do whatever they want.
Until you're exhausted and want to break up, they don't want to let go, begging you not to break up. But later they will still repeat the same tricks. This kind of person doesn't really care about you, so don't waste your time and energy on them, there is no value. This kind of person is not worth loving.
03
Unpredictable, making you feel exhausted
Their attitude towards you is always uncertain, making it impossible for you to accurately grasp their feelings. Today they're happy chatting with you, and then they don't even send you a message for a week. It makes you feel that the relationship is always unstable and unpredictable.
When you're frustrated and want to break up, they don't want to let go, begging you not to break up. But later they will still repeat the same tricks. This kind of person doesn't really care about you, so don't waste your time and energy on them, there is no value. This kind of person is not worth loving.
04
Reluctant to make their relationship public
Although they're intimate with you and do things that couples do, they always say that the timing is not right or they want to give a surprise to friends or family.
Don't be silly if someone is like this. If they don't want to make their relationship public, it means they don't want to admit the relationship, fearing that others will know. This is self-serving.
They are very selfish, enjoying your good intentions towards them, but they don't want to give you the status. So don't be silly, that surprise might never come.
It's not every love story that is genuine and pure, and not every person in love treats others sincerely. People are most prone to make mistakes by judging by appearance, thinking that someone is handsome and gentle, they think that person is good, only looking at the surface, ignoring the essence. When you love, it's most important to look at people's character.
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Author: Snow Fall Without Dust, Writer, Emotional Consulting Teacher. If you have any emotional concerns, you can send me a private message.
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