Old sayings say:“Harm others, one should not, guard others, one should not.””
Thousands of faces, thousand of situations, human relationships are really difficult to say.
Those who are betrayed and hurt by friends often are those who are genuinely sincere.Though sincere efforts bring sincere returns, one may be hurt severely.
There is a kind of person, the more good they show you, the more you should be cautious. 01
A gentleman is cautious, a villain is difficult to entangle.Some say to avoid those with bad intentions towards you.In fact, it is more terrifying to have malicious intentions revealed openly, and people who appear good on the surface but have dark thoughts behind them.Because they appear so good, one must be cautious.
There is a cousin, the eldest son and eldest grandson of the family's first-born, and he was pampered since childhood, and he had studied. He was a source of pride for the family.
The younger cousin was simple and honest, and he was used to handle all the dirty and tiring work for the family.The younger cousin longed for his cousin's status as a scholar, and the cousin would treat him well on the surface, but it didn't matter how he treated this cousin.
Later, the cousin graduated and got married and had children, and he went to a government job and got a state-owned job, traveling far and wide and living a prosperous life, while the younger cousin relied on picking up garbage to earn a living, and gradually he became a big boss by accumulating funds and opening a factory. The fate of people is truly unfathomable, the cousin had a decent job and a state-owned salary, and the younger cousin relied on picking up garbage to make a living and gradually developed into a well-known big boss.
The cousin was extremely unbalanced, feeling that it was unfair that the younger cousin had risen to prominence, and he kept going back to his roots, eventually becoming a surprisingly malicious person.
The younger cousin continued to get along with the cousin, but those who turned their backs on them connected with his competitors to harm him.They conspired together, setting a fire in the younger cousin's factory, destroying his half-life's hard work. The cousin later pretended to comfort the younger cousin, lending him money to pay off his debts, making the younger cousin feel grateful to him, feeling that the cousin was too good.If it wasn't because he drank with someone and boasted, the younger cousin would still be unaware.You can't imagine how terrifying a person's malice can be, it doesn't need to conflict with you, just jealousy can lead to ruthless actions.
Those who appear to be amiable on the surface but have ulterior motives are truly dangerous. 02
Heart is more terrifying than disaster.People who give you a first impression of kindness may not be truly so.
A small university graduate went to Beijing to work after graduating, and he was well-taken care of by his leader, who would warm him up and teach him difficult problems.
The small graduate quickly got to know the leader and often ate and chatted together.
The leader always appeared to be sincere towards her, giving a close impression, and the small graduate felt that she could trust her, so she relaxed her defenses.Because of her good work performance, the leader said she would be promoted and given a raise, and she was still excited when she realized she hadn't heard anything.The small graduate was frustrated and overheard other colleagues chatting in the tea room, learning that she couldn't be promoted because the leader had said at the meeting that she had a bad attitude and suspected she wanted to quit, so the company decided to observe her for a period of time.She was unfairly dragged down by the leader, and she couldn't believe it.
That leader who was kind to newcomers and said he would help her get promoted actually discredited her behind her back. She immediately stood up and tore at the leader's face in front of the company, and then she quit.Those who appear on the surface but have ulterior motives are very dangerous, they are far more terrifying than those who deliberately seek advantage.
A person with a mouth of little words will lose to a person who pretends.Have you ever experienced being framed by someone else: It was someone else who did something, and he always blamed it on you, even if you told the truth, everyone thought you misunderstood him.
I experienced this during my student years, it's disgusting.At first, I was attracted by her friendliness and generosity, thinking I had made a good friend, but later I realized she was a poisonous snake.
What's more, she was particularly good at pretending, making it seem like I was bullying her.It's really difficult to fight against those who appear to be good on the surface, outsiders can't believe she would do anything bad.
Just like when we watch TV dramas, the hidden villains are often those who are least expected.
Until the final episode, the truth was revealed.To some extent, I admire this kind of person, they do evil things but appear to be flawless on the surface, and no one except those who suffered from it knows the truth.I remember reading a book once had such a plot:The wife's husband was a lawyer, successful in his career, tall and handsome, and he was also gentle and attentive to his wife, and everyone thought he was a good husband.
But the wife insisted on divorcing him, and no one could persuade her, everyone thought she was foolish, and the husband didn't know how to cherish her, but she divorced him. The wife divorced him, and the lawyer continued to thrive, until he was implicated for fabricating evidence to help a corrupt official, and the police discovered that he was a child molester.Not everyone who is good to you deserves to be trusted.
Before accepting someone's kindness, you must first know what kind of person they are.Like those who appear to be one thing but are one thing, their kindness is coated with poison, and it may be that at any time they will take your life.
