Don't Look for Happiness in Happiness (Deep Text!)

In life, we all have a delusion:Happiness always belongs to others, worry belongs to oneself! So we feel more and more worries, and constantly search for them, but they are actually right in front of us!
Often we think that happiness exists in the game of people's money and power. Having a beautiful and majestic European mansion, driving a private car for going out, or achieving success, wearing gold and silver, being number one in the workplace, and receiving admiring glances and longing looks from others…
Looking back, how many people in the real world can achieve this condition? Shouldn't other people have experienced happiness? People strive for happiness, not afraid to travel thousands of miles, only to find that happiness is far away, close at hand.
There used to be a fascinating survey:What people are happiest in the world? Among the thousands of answers, there are four striking ones: the artist who whistles and admires his just-completed work, the mother bathing the baby, the child building castles in the sand, and the doctor who finally saved a sick patient after hours of hard work. Happiness is like this, as long as you use your heart to feel, it is simple but not plain.
There is such a story,

A poet is talented and wealthy, his wife is beautiful and gentle, and his son is smart and clever, but he couldn't feel happy. He asked God to help him regain happiness, and God took away his property, his family, and finally his talent. The poet was in agony, 'After a month, God returned these things to him, and the poet hugged his family and knelt before God, expressing his deep gratitude and thanks for God's gift of happiness.
In fact, God didn't give them anything extra, just helped them realize that what they had was precious.
Often when we are frustrated because we can't find happiness, it's not because happiness is really far away and unattainable, but because we are lost, and pursuing the wrong things.Because we have become numb, so we no longer notice happiness, which is always quietly following us. One day we suddenly realize it, and we look back, and we find that happiness is at the corner, quietly waiting for us to come home. We can't help but cry with joy and gratitude, and we pray in our hearts: Life is beautiful, thank heaven for letting us have all this.

Smart people may not be happy, but wise people can see happiness; Agile people may not be happy, but generous people can find happiness. Happiness always accompanies wisdom and generosity.
In this world, you may not be the happiest, but you must be one of the least unhappy.
Happiness is like a flower, every flower will bloom, your, mine, his; every flower will also wither, your, mine, his. You can't always be happy, but you should always experience what happiness is.
Heaven has made us like flowers, what we can do is to keep our flower season longer and longer, and increase our flower season.

Life is just like this, each stage has something to cherish and remember. We can appreciate the purity of childhood, the passion of youth, the confidence of young people, the stability of middle age, and the composure of old age, without criticizing the ignorance of youth, the recklessness of youth, the extravagance of youth, the shrewdness of the elderly, and the dullness of the elderly.
Simplicity is beauty, and happiness is actually very simple, just enjoy what you have.
Not getting it doesn't mean it's the best, what you have is precious, and only by being grateful and cherishing can you perceive happiness.
Rich people may not be happy, but those who know they are wealthy can feel happy.

Poor people may not be unhappy, but those who cherish what they have can also perceive happiness. Happiness and money are not necessarily proportional, but they are also not necessarily incompatible.
Who really masters happiness? Happiness is different from destiny, destiny seems to be an objective existence, while happiness is a subjective feeling, a comparison. Comparing yourself with others, comparing yourself with others.
When we are in a difficult situation, we should always encourage ourselves: 'Heaven will bestow great authority upon this man, first troubling his heart and mind, strengthening his muscles and bones, starving his body, disrupting his affairs, so that he moves his heart and restrains his nature, enhancing what he cannot achieve, therefore he is moved and restrained, enhancing his capabilities, and achieving success. '
You must always believe that half of your destiny is in your own hands, and you should not be swayed by trends, or self-deprecating. As long as you don't fall down, no one can defeat you.When we are in a good situation, we should always keep our minds clear. The reason we succeed is because of ability, and the opportunity is undoubtedly in the ascendant. When opportunities are equal, ability will certainly take the upper hand. Many people who haven't succeeded temporarily are not because they lost in ability, but because they lacked opportunities.

When we are successful, we should think about it, there are many people with superior ability to us at this moment, quietly waiting in the corner or struggling to obtain opportunities, you still dare to stop and rest for a while, perhaps there will be no chance anymore. Unconsciously, a fleeting moment has become eternal, instead of rest, it has become inaction, and a lost opportunity has become a permanent regret.This era has everything possible, the winner is the king, but few people can be king forever, because there are too many people who want to succeed, and a little negligence will be eliminated. It is difficult to turn over again.
Therefore, you must always remember that half of your destiny is in heaven's hands, don't be careless and complacent. As long as you don't fall down, no one can defeat you.
When we are in a good situation, we must always keep our minds clear. The reason we succeed is because of ability, and the opportunity is undoubtedly in the ascendant. Many people who haven't succeeded temporarily are not because they lost in ability, but because they lacked opportunities.
Success is not necessarily the best, happiness is relative, it depends on how you perceive it.
There are many ways to happiness, not just one.

It's up to you to decide what happiness is!
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