Education cannot create anything, but it can inspire children's creativity to engage in creative work. – Tao Xing Zhi
Last June, Du Hua participated in his 6-year-old daughter’s graduation ceremony. The girl’s headshot was exposed for the first time in the media.1981, at the same time as other stars, have already faded from people’s sight, only Du Hua has been ‘fire’ for 37 years, his fans cross generations.
In the beginning, Du Hua was called a ‘bad kid’
He let others run in the run-around, did not envy when others were flourishing.
In order to stabilize his foothold in the entertainment circle, Du Hua worked hard to take on roles every year, shooting more than 10 films per year, even sleeping 22 days without sleep, nicknamed ‘Iron Man’.
‘I’m a bad kid, I don’t know which film is good, which film is bad, which film will be popular, which film won’t, so I just take more!’Looking at Du Hua, we can see that his life is very unspectacular, just as he sings in ‘Today’‘Who hasn’t been hurt, who hasn’t shed tears’
‘I keep disappointed, I keep hoping’ Now, everywhere you look, you hear ‘listen to your inner voice, follow your heart’… many people persuade and inspire you to live a chic life. ”
A friend was fired by his boss for a few words, so he quit; a girlfriend complained a few words, so he immediately blocked her; a bad mood, he bought a plane to Lhasa…
Now it’s been many years, he’s been doing whatever he wants, but he regrets it: ‘I’m already over 30, I still need to compete with fresh graduates for jobs.’
People say that when you’re 30 and above, you should be established; he doesn’t even have enough to eat.
While everyone is saying ‘listen to your inner voice’, they often ignore one problem: maybe your inner voice is just your emotion.
You so-called inner voice, is just your emotion.
Writer Xi Xi once told a story:She and her boyfriend had been dating for four years, and they were both ready to get married. However, her boyfriend cheated on her.
After the breakup, she was very excited: ‘I must be too bad, unworthy of him’
‘He must be too fat, too tall’‘He must be too unfashionable’…
She went to the gym, studied, learned makeup, learned how to dress… she vowed to win him back.
Half a year later, he really returned to her side.
At first, she was very happy, feeling like she had successfully avenged her ex-girlfriend.But soon, they broke up again, and she said, ‘I just didn’t want to commit’.
‘We’re just not compatible, we’re fundamentally incompatible.’
Breaking up or getting back together, they never stopped to think rationally, just relying on emotions, and called it ‘listening to their inner voice’.
‘If you could live without loving anyone, why waste your life?’
The result was that they ended up exhausting themselves.
‘Women are easily emotional, so when something happens, they make irrational decisions.’
Looking at this inner voice, is it really just emotional?
Your inner voice is just your laziness.
A colleague told his cousin’s story.
His cousin is very carefree, he doesn't care about his career, he does whatever he wants.
Du Hua said in a show that he cooperated with a female actress, he needed a crane to drop down from the sixth floor, and then pick up the actress.
Using Du Hua's words, ‘she didn’t intend to, she just got used to it.’
Many people think that living your true self means listening to your inner voice and doing whatever you want.
But this is actually just being willful, it’s a sign that a person is starting to waste away. Those who conquer themselves can control their lives
A person’s growth is to constantly fight with their inner weaknesses and impulses, to fight with their inner voice.
As writer Bi Feiyu said, ‘People’s inner life is both seeking life and seeking death. We pursue light and also pursue darkness.’
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