We all have our own 'her,' yet we don't know how to love!
A young man by the river, red berries blooming,
A young man, truly makes my heart yearn,
But I cannot confess my love to him,
I have so many unspoken words, unable to express them,
He doesn't know anything about this matter,
The girl's longing for him, growing endlessly,
The riverside red berries have withered for him,
The girl's longing, hasn't diminished,
The girl's longing, the red berries bloom,
A young man, truly makes my heart yearn,
But I cannot confess my love to him,
I have so many unspoken words, unable to express them,
The girl's longing, growing endlessly,
I am a young woman, how can I tell him,
Without courage, I'm just wandering around,
My beloved, you guess for yourself,
Having watched 'Mom', I was deeply moved by the last scene of Xu Yiwu's mother singing 'Red Berries Blooming' in the Moscow Red Square concert hall. Having experienced a series of stories including 128 hours on the K3 train, bears, hot air balloons, etc., Xu Yiwu finally felt a profound maternal love through a moving Russian song,
If love is the greatest pursuit in life, I want to say that maternal love is perhaps the greatest love in the world!
The mother in the movie is young and has been living for her son, dedicating her greatest pursuit to educating her son to become a talent, and finally felt the true experience of women in this amazing journey. 'Love is not control and taking, love is acceptance and respect'
Everyone has a mother, each mother is different,
Your mother might be an educator, encouraging you to study, progress, and master new knowledge since you were a child,
Your mother might be a beauty enthusiast, buying clothes and styling your hair since you were a child, making you look beautiful,
Or perhaps your mother is a gourmet, arranging delicious dishes for you every day, supplementing your nutrition, and teaching you the principle of nourishing the body with food,
Mother is diversified, comparing with friends when I was young, my mother is not as good as your mother, let's change mothers, later realized no matter what your mother is like, we will always love and protect her, not allow anyone to hurt her,
Xu Yiwu's mother is not an exception, Xu Mom interferes with son's life, son's life is a mess, almost ruined his marriage, in the end, this interference resulted in a broken son. Nobody likes living like a puppet, just like Xu Yiwu said finally, 'Reasoning is the biggest nonsense', if you follow the standards and execute according to the rules, you will eventually get a controlled son,
Xu Yiwu!
He doesn't want to be controlled, he uses meaningless questioning with his mother! He treats her small tomatoes and various delicacies as confinement, he refuses to eat them! In this repeated conflict, he desperately escapes from her shackles, just like our teenage years, aren't we rebellious and dislike our mothers' control,
People often say that the best temper is given to strangers, for the people closest to us, we may lack patience and respect, I'm convinced,
Maternal love is a heavy word, some people have never understood it, in the end, they get 'the child wants to nurture and the parent is not in it', while we are busy in life, have we paused to look back and see our mothers,
The story in 'Mom' is bizarre and magical, in fact, it is magical realism, but the mother's appearance is real, it cannot be avoided, after the performance, Xu Yiwu and his mother returned home, Xu Mom took off the headgear and revealed her aged appearance and white hair, I was moved, I believe no one has realized that she is old! Even Xu Yiwu said at the beginning of the trip that his mother is over seventy years old!
We often don't stop to look back at our mothers, when we grow up, we start to dislike her being too slow, dislike her not understanding the trend, dislike her being stubborn, later we ignore her wrinkles, calluses on her hands, and her back curvature,
Finally, looking at the yellowed photos on the wall, seeing the photo in the middle where Xu Yiwu's mother is holding her child, we realized that her mother has always been silently protecting us, even if the world is chaotic and endless, she will desperately help us!
So take a moment to hug your mother, maybe she has been waiting for this hug for a long time!
I'm Xiaoqing, a movie lover
