Loving Others 70% Is Enough; The Remaining 30% Should Be For Yourself
Once, we were all simple and happy, laughing when happy and crying when sad, with a pure inner world like a child. Until we encountered someone, whose presence seemed to radiate light, attracting our gaze and touching our hearts.
From then on, your mood would change with his. You would be overjoyed like eating sugar because of his little kindness; you would be heartbroken like falling into the abyss because of his neglect and indifference.
When you care too much about one person, everything around you seems to be related to him. Even irrelevant things would unconsciously make you think of him.
Because of her, you would become insecure and fearful of losing her when together, and desperately miss her when separated. These delicate feelings made you constantly become submissive in love.
However, a beautiful love should be like a chess game—challenging and equal, not constantly pleasing one person while the other ignores you. As someone said, 'Loving someone to seven parts is enough; the remaining three parts should be for yourself.'
That's exactly true. Only when you learn to care for yourself will others truly see you. When you're preoccupied with someone else, you must leave yourself some time and space. Because in this lifetime, only you can accompany you the longest.
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