Grandfather’s 20 Crucial Words – They’re Real, Not Just Words!

01 Family words beside your ears, outsiders' words are golden sayings.
Many people always think that the words of outsiders are more important than those of family, but family is the person who has accompanied you for the longest time.
Listen to family words carefully, and speak to family with care.
02 Front gate has a horse, wealth is not necessarily rich, home has someone does not count poor.
The current poverty is temporary, as long as you are alive, everyone can work together, there is nothing you can't do.
If everyone lives a lazy life, even if they have a fortune, they may still be poor.
03 A stick is easy to break, ten sticks are as hard as iron when together.
Whether it's a family or a team, don't be afraid of few people, just be afraid of unequal hearts.
A single person is easy to be defeated, when a team, a family, tightly united, even the biggest difficulties can be overcome.
04 A man is afraid of heaven, a good man fears heaven but not man.
Good people are rewarded, bad people are punished. Not revenge, the time is not yet ripe.
People who are arrogant and domineering will eventually receive retribution. Those who have good intentions may suffer small losses, but they will receive great blessings.

05 Iron needs to be forged three times, good books need to be read a hundred times.
Reading a book a hundred times, the meaning will naturally appear. Beautiful things all need countless times of polishing.
In life, you will encounter countless difficulties, but each time you overcome a setback, you will become a better self.
06 Don't be afraid to pick a big bowl when eating, just be afraid of laziness when working.
Greed and laziness are not divided, people are not afraid of not having enough ability, just afraid of not striving.
Don't be lazy, if you become lazy, there is no hope.
07 When the master is deep, it is appropriate to retreat first, when the situation is glorious, it is appropriate to rest.
The key to life is 'moderation'. It's important to know when to stop.
When you're down, don't be overly decadent. When you're in a good situation, don't be arrogant. Master the measure, and good fortune will last long.
08 People are persistent, everything is accomplished; people are not persistent, everything collapses.
As long as you are not afraid of things, you can persevere, there is nothing you can't overcome.
If a person can persevere, he can achieve success.

09 Don't be afraid to climb high mountains, don't be afraid of passing dangerous rapids.
No matter how difficult the road is, there will be an end; no matter how difficult the task is, there will be a completion.
Don't be discouraged by temporary difficulties, the most difficult times are precisely when you are closest to success.
010 Today has wine, today enjoys it, tomorrow fasts to drink cold water.
Life needs planning, not just drinking wine today and eating cold water tomorrow. Life is long, you have to flow slowly.
Regardless of money or health, don't waste it for a moment.
011 There is no sky in the heavens, no earth in the earth.
Anything is possible, don't underestimate yourself.
As long as you don't give up on yourself, even the biggest difficulties and misfortunes cannot defeat you.
012 Men are greedy, they should carry accounts; women are greedy, they should be fooled.
A man who sucks people is softer than a mouth; a man who holds people's hands is short. Take advantage of others, sooner or later you will be repaid.
Greed for pleasure and small profits should not be pursued, long-term vision should be maintained.

013 When the cold doesn't freeze, the Weaver's hands; when the famine doesn't starve, the farmer's diligence.
Heaven is fair to everyone, if you feel unlucky, it may be because you are not working hard.
Heaven won't drop, only hard work can bring happiness.
014 One egg is not enough to eat, a bad name will follow you for a lifetime.
Good things don't come to your door, bad things spread. When doing things, you must have integrity; when making money, you must be honest.
Don't lack morals, don't sell your conscience.
015 When you are fortunate, you don't know how fortunate you are; when you are in a boat, you don't know how to flow.
Do things with gratitude, don't be selfish, you are not the center of the world.
Don't take others' good things for granted, a person must be grateful.
016 Don't be afraid of people not respecting you, just be afraid of being unrighteous.
The most important thing is to be honest and upright.
A person with integrity and righteousness will earn respect no matter what their wealth and power are.

017 Men are greedy, they should carry accounts; women are greedy, they should be fooled.
A man who sucks people is softer than a mouth; a man who holds people's hands is short. Take advantage of others, sooner or later you will be repaid.
Integrity is the foundation, honesty is the base.
A person with integrity and righteousness will earn respect no matter what their wealth and power are.
018 Do things by finding the right direction, don't do useless things.
Finding the right direction is more important than hard work. When you find your target and strengths, you can achieve greater success in life.
019 Words spread three times, the worm grows three legs.
Three people can make a tiger, false words spread too much and become true.
Don't spread rumors and don't say nonsense.
020 Cows don't know how to bend the corner, horses don't know how to look at the face.
You must know your strengths and weaknesses. Don't talk nonsense that makes you look foolish. Don't scorn others, and others may also have weaknesses you don't see.